IT'S NOT YOUR SINGLE

I came to rant today, yes oh…proper rant. I was leaving work today and the following conversation ensued between my colleague and I:
Mr A: Ada where are you rushing to?
Me: Oh….to the bank
Mr A: then after that?
Me: *with a weird look* my house
Mr A: he says okay and walks away
30 seconds later, he starts to shout my name and I stop and he says;
Mr A: Do you have a boyfriend?
Me: yes I do….he’s in heaven looking over me
Mr A: You are wasting your life away(his exact words), you should go find one and stop fronting for all these ones toasting you……
Wawu was all I could muster to say to him after the long speech was delivered (oh yes I was patient to listen to the end of it).
Words couldn’t describe how pissed I was both at him and at the set of humans that have the same perspective. Am sure a lot of single ladies have had an experience because of their chosen relationship status.
Am really pissed at the set of people that think that a woman not in a relationship  has no status or purpose in life but yet won’t agree to marry a successful woman because she’s intimidating.
Disappointed at the ones that add so much pressure to a young girl just out of university, trying to find and fulfil her purpose in life.
Disappointed at the people that see a woman working hard and try to attribute it to her probably being a runs girl.
Am not single because am rude or have an improper attitude.
Am not single because am too selective....well I am, aren't we all? Nobody wants just any kind of person.

A lot of young ladies care less about a relationship right now, not because we don’t want to enjoy the sole company of a man that we care about. But because we know how stressful it is to be in a relationship, the amount of commitment and work that goes into it.
We know the level of achievement we want before relationship comes. We strictly want to enjoy our single status. We just understand that our life needs to be sorted out to a certain extent before we let another person in

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We are in the 21st century where people are losing their senses and some others are finding theirs, but in all everyone is realizing that happiness is the top priority for them and if being single is what will give you the satisfaction of being happy why not, go ahead.
PS: if you are in a relationship and happy, keep going, you are our inspiration. We will get to where you are soon.

From a single and satisfied Lady.