ladies..be the man(a female perspective)

ladies, I know many of us basically want our men to be the Jesus Christ to us here on earth,and trust me by having this mindset you are bombarding the poor male human with loads of responsibilities. You might not know you are doing these things:
1) Expecting him to always know when you are angry even without telling him.
2) Expecting him to be your personal bank account just because he is bae.
3) Expecting him to be your father,brother and bestfriend and yes BOO.
4) Expecting him to always pick your calls and not even ignore one.
4) Expecting him to always call at least three times daily, Morning, Afternoon,Night.
5) Expecting him to be a mad ass romantic even when you don't do anything close to romance for him.
6) Expecting him to not have other female friends or even mistakenly stare at one *p.s niggy ain't blind, eyes are for seeing*
7) Expecting him to be a good man and a bad boy.
8) Expecting him to always impress your friends so you will be told you are a lucky gal.
9) Expecting him to always displease himself to please you.
10) Expecting him to be a kunfu panda on the bed, I mean baba has to know the whole kamasutra styles.
11) Expecting him to be a prayer warrior, superman and all them super hero people.
12) Expecting him to be consistent in caring, understanding...mhen all we expect is CONSISTENCY.

I think I have said enough from our expectations, I'm not trying to say I'm not guilty of all these things myself but I have realized in a way we are not been fair to the male species, I mean they are also human. Okay for y'all that have boos,have you taken a time out to just ask him if he is broke or if he had issues with his boss at work or if he even had a bad day. I guess most of us don't do this, we just expect so much from them that we forget that being in a relationship is like being in partnership. It's not only about you, it's about both of you, once you realize this ,you both will have a more understanding relationship except the universe doesn't agree with you two been together.

So I am going to list out somethings you ''should'' try...remember I said ''should'' not ''must''...it might be pleasing to you or not but at least try first, so lets go:
1) Try to complain less about his bad sides, no one is perfect not even him.
2) Try to understand that he is also human, he can't be all that consistent no matter how much he tries.
3) Try to call often too, by the way he asked you to be in the relationship with him, he didn't say he was going to be alone in it.
4) Try to surprise him by doing things he was supposed to do, take him out, pay for his fueling, send him call card, cook for him, surprise him with gifts when he has a bad day.

  
5) Try to pray for him more often, what we don't understand is unless you don't wanna end up with that person standing another human being takes more than i love you, it takes grace, always ask God to give you the wisdom to understand who you are with.

5) Try to communicate more with him, once you realize he is slacking and its getting you angry or sad never hesitate to tell him, he is also human and does not have super powers to predict your mood, for example i watched a movie where a woman was angry with her husband because the sex wasn't as good as before, trust me the guy had no idea what he was doing wrong but he knew his wife changed, until she opened her mouth and communicated he never knew the problem was sex and guess what he worked on making the sex better.
6) Know that he also gets emotional and that your actions and silent treatments gets to him, he's a man he might not say it but they do, ask him if he's sad, if he's angry, if there's something you both should do to make the relationship more exciting.
7) Immediately you get bored don't back out, try new things that you have never tried in the relationship, plan a secret dinner for him, buy football tickets for him or his favorite sports ish, play the ps game with him, gist about other girls with him and how you see him look at them.
8) Let the relationship be about both of you and not you, him, and your friends, guys sincerely hate when they hear their relationship issues outside they prefer it's just between you both by the way it's you he is dating.
9) Try to be less paranoid,paranoia has ruined lots of  relationships, when it's all in your head that he is cheating or getting tired of the relationship.
11) Understand that he is a guy and trust me they are not as good as we females in relationships, put him through every step, sometimes they don't understand why we act the way we do, sister when you are on your period and you are not in the mood and get cranky tell him.
12) The way you want him to be your father, brother, best friend and BOO, be his mother, sister, best friend and BAE.
13) Remember that the relationship is about BOTH of you and not only you.
14) Stop nagging, major turn off for guys.
15) Chat different, your chat and calls must not always be the way it has been the regular, ''how are you?'', ''hope you have eaten?'' call and chat different.
16) Compliment him,you know the same way you like him telling you you are pretty, reciprocate the act...it helps his ego.
  

And know that this post is only for people in serious relationships and not those who are there to leave when they are tired. So ladies,I hope this made sense enough,if it didn't I'd like to hear your suggestions in the comment box.